the alchemist

..."It's this: that at a certain point in our lives, we lose control of what's happening to us, and our lives become controlled by fate. That's the world's greatest lie."

--- The Alchemist (Paul Coelho)

Even though you might feel as if your life is spinning out of control, and even though feel as if theres no hope, giving up and thinking fate will take over is wrong. If you give up, and lose the will to fight you ultimately lose. All I have to say is, your life is in own hands and you shape your own lifes, never think that whatever happens to you is because of fate, you have only yourself to blame.

i know this may sound self contradicting as i am always the one who says let fate decide, but life changing decision? no. you don't let fate decide, because you decide yourself.